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by Alex Johnson July 03, 2024 4 min read
One of the most comforting, fulfilling, and profound experiences of life is Parenthood. It brings in a sense of purpose, which is one of the most beautiful feelings in the world. From the first glance of your child after birth to holding their hands and guiding them through life, magically changes the life of a parent, forever. The joy of spending your days with your child, celebrating milestones, and creating a future together is an incredibly joyous journey.
When the tragic loss of your child tragically interrupts this journey, it completely destroys you. It shatters the very foundation of a parent’s world, leaving them grappling with overwhelming emotions.
Grief is not merely an emotion but a complex personal experience, particularly when it involves the loss of a child. Pain comes in waves. It’s a process with many facets, including denial, depression, bargaining, and acceptance. These facets have no order and can recur many times.
Denial often is the first reaction after the immediate shock. This stage is like a defense mechanism, and one often finds themselves questioning, “This can’t be happening” or “This must be a mistake.”
Denial is usually followed by anger, anger towards oneself, towards others, towards the circumstances, and the truth.
During this phase, bargaining kicks in. The thought of “what if” and “if only” surrounds you. Constantly yearning for ways to reverse the situation. This stage reflects the individual's struggle to regain control and find meaning in the face of the loss.
The final stage is when the reality of loss has seeped in, and one is left with depression, sadness, and a sense of hopelessness.
Grief that is so intense, accompanied by feelings of guilt and helplessness. Accepting reality is the most difficult and important step of coping. It doesn’t mean the person is “over” or has let go, but rather has come to terms with it. They may still feel sad about the situation, but they do have the power to overcome the sadness and resume their regular day-to-day habits.
Sadness that can feel suffocating, feelings of shock and numbness. Parents might feel fear, anxiety, and a sense of emptiness, as well as fatigue, difficulty sleeping, and loss of appetite. There is no “right” or “wrong” way to grieve. This process is very natural, and everyone reacts to it differently.
Even though the thought may seem distant at the moment, finding ways to cope with loss is important. Letting out your emotions with a family member a friend or a support group is healthy. Journaling is a powerful tool that may help you come to terms with your emotions and will guide you through difficult times. Meditation and practicing the art of mindfulness can help you manage the myriads of emotions and will help you ground yourself. Physical activities such as yoga, walking, and stretching can also bring peace to your mind and relieve the accumulated tension. Visiting a counselor or a therapist can provide invaluable support and help. Being experienced in the field of mental health, they can provide strategies that will help you navigate complex emotions.
Honoring your child’s memory could help you on the journey of healing. It gives a sense of closure and is a beautiful way to celebrate your child’s life. Memorial services, rituals, charitable activities, etc, could be ways to keep your child’s memory alive. One extremely profound and personal way to honor your child is urns and cremation jewelry.
Child Urns can provide you with a special place where you can find a reflection of them, and the beautiful memories shared. Cremation jewelry allows you to carry a part of your child with you always and provides you with a sense of connection. They are with you, within you, forever in your heart, beyond time and space.
A very important step during this time is taking care of yourself. Grief can take a toll on your mental and physical health. It’s important to eat well, get enough sleep, and relax, even if it feels difficult. Not all paths of life can be traveled alone, seeking help when you need it is vital. Being surrounded by loved ones or health-care professionals, as you go through this phase is considerable. A beautiful way to cope with loss, non-verbally, is art therapy. It helps in expressing emotions that words cannot. Physical health shouldn’t be neglected, either. Going out for a walk, even if it’s for 10 minutes, can make a significant difference.
Rediscovering joy can start with small steps. Allow yourself moments of joy without feeling guilty. Engage in activities that you once loved or find something new. Personal growth often emerges from the depths of grief. Many parents who lose their child, tend to find a new perspective towards life. The grief makes them more empathetic and resilient.
Child Urns can be personalized to reflect the life and personality of your child. Their interests, favorite colors, favorite food/cartoon characters, etc. The cremation urns are handcrafted with the hope that they reflect their innocence and life’s joy. You can also get their image UV-printed on the urn to personalize it even more or get a favorite quote/message/important date laser-engraved. A glance of the urn and spending time with it can bring you peace and warmth. It could be the light that guides you to find meaning and purpose in your life. Something even more special and close to your heart could be wearing a cremation pendant or cremation bracelets. It’s a beautiful way to keep them with you, wherever you go. They can also be conversation starters, allowing you to talk about them and the favorite memories shared with them. These are symbols of love and recollection that aid the journey towards healing.
Grieving the loss of a child is unimaginably difficult, one that no parent should have to endure. The journey of coping with it is filled with pain but is also marked by resilience and love. We hope, we were able to connect with your heart and guide you to re-discover the joy and purpose of your life. It may seem difficult but with time and support, it is possible. The love you have for your child will never fade, rather, it’ll transform into a guiding light in the quest of healing and peace.
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by Alex Johnson September 04, 2024 6 min read
by Annette Croda August 22, 2024 5 min read
by Alex Johnson July 24, 2024 6 min read
Cremation Jewelry also known as memorial jewelry for ashes is a delicate yet powerful embrace of recollection, worn close to the heart. It offers a comforting connection and closeness to our loved ones. GetUrns’ collection of sterling silver cremation jewelry whispers the tales of love and legacy. A powerful source of strength and comfort on the path of healing.